❤️🔥Become Secure AF❤️🔥
Heal anxious love patterns, rebuild self-worth, become secure AF and manifest your dream love and life with private coaching tailored to you
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Hey, I’m Dr Kalli — psychologist, manifestation coach, and creator of the Secure AF framework 💛
After helping hundreds of women transform their love lives through deep self-concept work, emotional healing, and my proven manifestation method, I created this private experience for those who are done with anxious love loops and ready to call in secure, lasting love — yes, even with a specific person.
This is where you stop chasing and start receiving.
It’s time to become the version of you who always feels chosen — because she chooses herself first.
Sound familiar?
You’re exhausted.
From overthinking. From giving second chances.
From losing yourself again and again in the name of love.
You’ve done the inner work.
You’ve journaled. Meditated. Visualised. Waited.
You’ve watched the SP videos. Listened to the podcasts. Held on to potential.
But deep down...
You still don’t feel chosen.
You don’t feel safe.
You don’t feel enough.
Maybe it’s a specific person you just can’t let go of.
Maybe it’s a breakup that shattered your confidence.
Maybe love has always felt more like anxiety, silence, or second-guessing than connection.
I created this for you.
Because I was you.
And now I know what it really takes to become Secure AF, to manifest love and your dream life from a place of calm, clarity, and power… not fear.
💥 What if you stopped trying to “fix” yourself for love…
Secure AF Bootcamp is a fully personalised 1:1 coaching experience where we unravel the core of your attachment wounds, rebuild your self-worth from the inside out, and activate your most magnetic, emotionally grounded self — so love no longer feels like a test, a spiral, or a guessing game.
This isn’t a course.
It’s deep identity work.
It’s nervous system healing.
It’s manifestation with emotional depth and psychological power.
It’s high-touch support with someone in your corner every step of the way.
Not just to cheerlead you…
But to walk with you through every shift.
To coach you through every trigger, spiral, and breakthrough.
And to make sure you never again have to become someone else just to feel loved.
💬 From Me to You
I didn’t create this from theory.
I created it because I was the woman who needed this work.
The one who felt unworthy.
Stuck in cycles of anxious attachment, overgiving, and waiting to be chosen.
Always asking:
“What did I do wrong?”
“Why do I always end up here?”
I spent years hoping love would finally feel safe.
Hoping he would change.
Hoping that if I just did more, fixed more, proved more… it would all finally fall into place.
But nothing changed... until I did.
Secure AF Bootcamp is built on the exact process that transformed my self-worth, emotional regulation, and ability to manifest love that actually lasted.
It’s the same framework that’s now helping my clients heal their attachment wounds, stop chasing emotionally unavailable partners, and completely rewrite their love story — sometimes with a specific person, sometimes with someone even better.
This isn’t fluff.
It’s not a surface-level mindset course or recycled coaching jargon.
It’s deep, structured, psychology-informed coaching.
It’s nervous system healing.
It’s manifestation with emotional depth, rooted in self-trust and inner safety.
It’s high-touch, private support designed to help you shift for good.
No more spiralling.
No more self-abandoning.
No more wondering if you’re “too much” or “not enough.”
You’re about to become the version of you who never has to ask that again.
Because she knows her worth — and she leads from it.
Let’s begin.
Your Secure AF chapter starts now.
💫 What You’ll Walk Away With (and why it matters)
✅ Clarity on your anxious or avoidant attachment patterns — and exactly how to break the cycle for good
✅ Emotional regulation tools to stop spiralling over mixed signals, silence, or rejection
✅ Healthy boundaries you can actually hold without guilt, fear, or chasing behaviour
✅ Deep, embodied self-worth that doesn’t disappear when someone pulls away
✅ Confidence in dating, communication, and connection from secure, grounded energy
✅ A secure self-concept that naturally attracts emotionally available, committed love
✅ Magnetic energy rooted in nervous system safety no chasing, overgiving, or performing
✅ And yes… a completely new dynamic with your specific person (or someone even better) grounded in alignment, not fear
👑 Who This Is For
This is for you if...
💔 You’re stuck on a specific person who won’t commit, won’t change, or suddenly pulled away — and you’re ready to shift the dynamic
💬 You’ve been through a breakup that shattered your self-worth and you don’t feel like yourself anymore
🔁 You keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, and love always feels like a test or a loop you can’t escape
🧠 You’ve “done the inner work” — journaled, visualised, meditated — but nothing’s actually changed in your reality
❓You constantly wonder if you’re good enough, lovable enough, or truly worthy of a secure relationship
😣 You feel anxious, obsessive or triggered, even when you’re trying to stay in your “high vibe”
👑 And you’re done trying to fix yourself for love.
You’re ready to become the version of you who naturally attracts commitment, respect, and love, without chasing.
Based on the framework that has got hundreds of women seeing results like this:
Just imagine the results you'll experience with fully leveled up, direct support from me every step of the way✨
💫 What’s Included
You’ll choose the time frame that supports you best:
🖤 6 Weeks – fast-track, focused support to shift quickly
🌿 8 Weeks – space to integrate, process, and deepen the work
💫 3 Months – slow, steady rewiring with full-spectrum support
🦋 6 Months –– steady transformation, extra breathing space
💫 Your Secure AF Bootcamp Journey: Week-by-Week
This isn’t just a coaching container — it’s a complete, structured transformation.
Here’s what we’ll cover together over our 6 sessions (regardless of your chosen pathway):
Session 1: The Insecure Root (1-hour call)
🔍 Identify the subconscious patterns that keep you spiralling in love
🧠 Uncover where they began — so you can stop repeating them for good
Session 2: Emotional Rewiring (30 minute call)
💥 Learn how to regulate your nervous system + shift emotional triggers
🧘♀️ Create a deep sense of calm, safety, and self-trust from within
Session 3: The Secure Identity Shift (30 minute call)
👑 Redefine your self-worth and step into a powerful new love identity
📝 Start embodying a secure self-concept through mindset + psychology
Session 4: Manifestation with Depth (30 minute call)
💫 Align your energy, beliefs and identity to manifest love that lasts
💌 Shift the dynamic with your SP — or call in someone new — from a grounded, magnetic place
Session 5: Boundaries & Magnetic Communication (30 minute call)
🗣️ Set boundaries that feel safe to hold and aligned with your worth
✨ Communicate from secure energy — and stop abandoning yourself to be chosen
Session 6: Embodiment & Integration (1 hour call)
🧱 Lock in your transformation with tools to support long-term change
🖤 Embody the Secure AF version of you in love, dating, and life
🎁 Bonus Resources Included (Value: over £900)
When you join Secure AF Bootcamp, you’ll also get instant access to two of my most powerful self-paced programmes:
💘 Limitless in Love – My full relationship manifestation course to shift your self-concept and call in the love you deserve (worth £699)
🧠 Secure in Love – My psychology-based toolkit for healing anxious or avoidant attachment at the root (worth £222)
These two resources beautifully complement the live coaching journey, giving you even more tools, practices and insights to deepen the work between sessions.
🧠 This Is Not Passive
This is a fully supported, deeply personal, high-level experience.
Every part is tailored to you.
And every time you waver, spiral, question your worth, or wonder “what if he never comes back?” — I’ll be there.
💬 Holding your hand.
💥 Calling you forward.
🖤 Coaching you through the trigger, the silence, the fear, the urge to give up.
You won’t be left to figure this out alone.
You’ll be supported, seen, challenged, and transformed
🌿 Four Pathways, One Transformation:
You’ll receive the same powerful coaching, tools, and support, just spread out in the way that best suits your nervous system, schedule, and budget.
Over £3,400+ worth of content... So which pathway are you choosing?
🖤 The Secure Shift — 6 Weeks
£1,297
Ready to move fast and shift powerfully
✅ 6 x private 1:1 coaching calls (weekly)
✅ 6 transformational workbooks + reflection sheets
✅ Private messaging support throughout
✅ Secure AF client portal
🎁 Includes: Limitless in Love + Secure in Love (value over £800)
🌿 The Integration Journey — 8 Weeks
2 monthly payments of £667
Have the space to integrate, reflect, and apply the work between sessions
✅ 6 x private 1:1 coaching calls (spread over 8 weeks)
✅ 6 transformational workbooks + reflection sheets
✅ Private messaging support throughout
✅ Secure AF client portal
🎁 Includes: Limitless in Love + Secure in Love (value over £800)
💫 The Deep Rewire — 3 Months
3 monthly payments of £497
Step into a more spacious, long-term transformation with gentle, steady rewiring
✅ 6 x private 1:1 coaching calls (2 calls each month)
✅ 6 transformational workbooks + reflection sheets
✅ Private messaging support throughout
✅ Secure AF client portal
🎁 Includes: Limitless in Love + Secure in Love (value over £800)
💫 The Evolution Era — 6 Months
6 monthly payments of £267
Embrace your next era with gentle guidance, spacious support, and sustained evolution
✅ 6 x private 1:1 coaching calls (1 call each month)
✅ 6 transformational workbooks + reflection sheets
✅ Private messaging support throughout
✅ Secure AF client portal
🎁 Includes: Limitless in Love + Secure in Love (value over £800)
❓FAQs
Let’s Get You Clear
Do I get the same content in every pathway?
Can I choose my payment plan separately from the pathway?
Is this for me if I’m manifesting a specific person?
What if I’m single and not focused on anyone right now?
What if I’ve already done Limitless in Love?
How are calls scheduled?
What kind of support do I get between sessions?
I’m going through a breakup right now — is this the right time?
Is this only for women, or can men join too?
Ready to become Secure AF?
You’ve done the inner work. You’ve faced the patterns.
Now it’s time to fully heal anxious attachment, reclaim your self-worth, and attract love that actually lasts — even with a specific person.
Secure AF Bootcamp isn’t just another relationship coaching programme.
It’s a high-level transformation designed to help you manifest love from a place of confidence, clarity, and emotional safety.
Choose your path. Commit to your growth.
And let’s create the Secure AF version of you who never has to chase love again.
